Has anyone ever felt like someone really wasn't ur friend, but they said they were? I deffinatly have! I am posting this because I don't know what else to do. The so called friendship has gone on for so long. I helped this person so many times. I was so nice to her. She has hurt me. She called me names.... she talked about me behind my back. I have cried over this person numerous times. I can't stand people hating me so I have to clear things up. It never seems to work. She agrees but then she always ends up turning on me. I have just given up. I don't even care anymore. I just want to..... forget that I ever met this person. If anyone was felt this way... just post.
I've kind of felt that way. If she is acting like a jerk to you, then tell her not to speak to you and find a better friend. It not fair that you are trying to be a good friend and she just talks crap. Trust me. If she was your friend, she would fix things herself.
I have had the same problem...... I am friends with someone i've been friends nearly all my life. She has allways picked her other friends. She is nearly allways cruel too someone. When we fight yeah......
She allways sais something without thinking! And many times she has hurt me and my feelings just because she lies too me all the time.... But sometimes we can have fun but right now i just wannao away...
Well two of my friends are in a fight and I think it's because of religion or something.
Quote from: Maya Mayhem on October 10, 2007, 05:32:55 AM
Well two of my friends are in a fight and I think it's because of religion or something. I don't know who to trust lately and I feel like I should just break away from everybody. I've told my bff things about her that I wish she'd just stop doing but she won't tell me what annoys her about me. But I still can't tell any of my friends anything and I wish they'd just keep me out of things. One of my friends,when some girl likes a guy she has to like him too and everyone finds that annoying(especially me with a boy named dalton)but when she likes a guy no one can like him. It's so friggin annoying. I hope that I'm not like any of my friends cause you know what I'm already dying under the pressure of concealing my feelings.
Maya you shouldn't conceal ur feelings. Talk to your mom or something. You need to tell your friends how you feel. They should understand and if they don't they're not good friends. When you keep you feelings inside bad things happen....
well, two of my friends were fighting. And the two that were fighting were best friends with each other. But what one of them does is try to get me in the middle of it even though they know there is nothing I can do about it. Then she acts like my best friend, but when they get done fighting with their other best friend, They stop being my friend completly. So they basically just use you to get back at their friend. I hate that!
I know exactly how you feel. My friends sometimes act like that too. I sware all of the instances that people have posted have happened to me and my friends. Its almost creepy how much girls are alike when it comes to fighting.
yeahh i kno how everyone feels... i have a friend who has stabbed me in the back one to many times
Quote from: Vanessa on October 11, 2007, 06:48:36 AM
yeahh i kno how everyone feels... i have a friend who has stabbed me in the back one to many times
Yep..... Same person.... Same things... She never seems to quit either.
Wow. Sounds just like all my friends. Except the fact that I have none. Besides on here. This is my only get away.
wow you guys have a lot of drama, i see that a lot with my friends that are girls. Mostly with guys we'll joke around with each other like 24/7 but we're good friends so we're not gonna like stab each other in the back or anything.
yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!
any advice? :-\
Quote from: Maddie on October 12, 2007, 06:39:37 AM
yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!
any advice? :-\
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Yeah. I kno how you feel. I kno this proply sounds stupid but i have this group of like five guys that are always mean to everyone and puposely cause fights just to make people mad. They spread rumors about people and then blame it on someone else just to cause a fight. It makes me so mad. and it always seems like every other guy wants to be a part of the group. NOT ME!
Quote from: Maddie on October 12, 2007, 06:39:37 AM
yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!
any advice? :-\
Yeah, Maddie I know how you feel and if you need anything pm me. I have a girl like that at my school and she is always mean to me no matter how hard i try to be her friend. She just won't accept me as i am. Once again, any advice? :-\
Maybe you should ask her why she is like that and listen. She may have a really good reason... you never know. Same with Maddie just ask the girls... they may have reasons.
i try, but when i do, they get mad, and sometimes yell. they try to make sides, and tell lies about me and a few of my "real" friends. they have also told my secrets to people, and get mad when u like a guy that they like. i dont really see what the big deal is.
any advice? :-\
There is this girl at my school, and she is so popular, and everyone loves her, and I don;t exactly understand why! She is pretty, yes, but not that smart (no offense to her), and she gossips about people!! I mean, I don't gossip, I am smart, and I (in my opinion) am pretty! So, why is she so great, and I'm not! I mean she's nice to people, to a certain extent, and I a too!! Seriously, what am I doing so wrong!?
Well maybe you should just let them yell and get everything out and then you have your turn. Your relationship may just need some work, so talk it out. And liking someone that ur friend likes is best just to keep to ur self because that hurts when you have told someone one of your deepest secrets and they go and hurt you by saying that they like that person too.
(if this has anything to do why um..... me pm me please maddie)
((this is to maddie))
Quote from: dobby888 on October 12, 2007, 07:54:01 AM
There is this girl at my school, and she is so popular, and everyone loves her, and I don;t exactly understand why! She is pretty, yes, but not that smart (no offense to her), and she gossips about people!! I mean, I don't gossip, I am smart, and I (in my opinion) am pretty! So, why is she so great, and I'm not! I mean she's nice to people, to a certain extent, and I a too!! Seriously, what am I doing so wrong!?
Thats a hard on. I have someone like that at my school. I don't understand why that is either, but when I get to thinking about it its probably because shes easy.... and all the guys like that. Why.... i have no idea! Is she easy?
I don't know what you mean, but everyone likes her, and there are girls that in like 3rd grade when popularity didnt matter, and they were really nice, but then it started to matter, and they went out of there way to be inn the IN cround and I just say hey, you can do what you want, but I'm a loser and that's ok, I have real friends.((but I dont really say that.... well I do say the loser part, but you get my point.))
Me and my bff always seem like the bad guy, though. What should we do to be friends with her?
Like i said you just need to talk it out. Telling the whole truth feels so much better. If something has gotten in the way of your friendship maybe you need to tell her that. Maybe theres just a reason why you always seem to be the bad guy... something that only one person knows. (this is for maddie)
And dobby... what i meant by easy is that all the guys like her because she lets the guys get whatever they want out of her and ur most likely not like that. You are probably much more reserved and maybe you just need to loosen up just a smidge. I was the same way and I did that and the guys actually took more of an interest in me and most of the guys don't make fun of me anymore. They are my friends now. It also might just be the age. When guys are in 6th and 7th grade they are really immature, but when they get to about 8th some of them start to mature a little. Although it depends what they are like in the first place.
Maddy I totally agree with you. Guys can be total jerks sometimes but when they get older they get more mature. I always use to hang around guys when I was little. They kind of talk to me but since their still in Japan we send emails.
Oh... It must stink to not have your friends around.... But yeah... I have two brothers and im the only girl. Also im stuck in the middle. And thats not exactly fun. They do eventually mature. Some faster than others! Just hold on guys! They'll grow up!
i hope. :-\
I am so with you there. i used to like this guy, but hes completely immature in a sorta good way, but i dont want to hurt my friends so i can't like him. hes sorta monkey-ish anyway!
(right, lauren, lauren, shelbes, lex, and rachy)
IM OVER HIM! i like someone else who will go unnamed... anyways it was only painfull in that getting over stage im not trying to hold u back
I'm pretty much over him to, hes really not worth it, right?
There's no way in the world that a guy is worth more than a friend. And monkey man is totally not worth it.
Haha! No, I'm fine with her being all popular, because as my mom says *every one is popular with their own group of friends* So, maybe that group isnt my type, and maybe I'll grow to like them... who knows!?
sorry guys but i kinda like that monkeyish like guy. lol! (please dont b mad!)
but dobby me and all my friends are exactly like u........so dont worry...........ive been in that situation..............just do what u feel is right..........and the definition of popular means having a lot of friends....no matter who they are...........me and my friends arnt really "in"..........but were DEFINATLY not........."out" or anything like that......but if u feel like this is where ur sposed to be....and ur happy..........what else really matters.
love, maddie! :-*
Thanks Maddie!! :-*
and yeah I like where I am, I mean sometimes it feels like I can't do something with other people because of my friends, but thats ok, because I'd do anything for those guys!
Ha! ur so funny! lol lol lol! but yeah i mean i used to kinda feel that way a little.........but not at ALL anymore!
Quote from: LordBlaZe on October 11, 2007, 11:12:05 AM
wow you guys have a lot of drama, i see that a lot with my friends that are girls. Mostly with guys we'll joke around with each other like 24/7 but we're good friends so we're not gonna like stab each other in the back or anything.
Girls are masters at backstabbing! and they can start fight over the simplest thing in the world.
One day in my class some girls started too fight because they liked the same guy and they fought over whos hould have him.... I was laughing myself too death that day!
i dont know if 3 of my friends are my real friends ;D!!!!
I know exactly how you feel Natalie. Its okay to feel that way too. But you need to talk to them about it. Just keep going and don't let them stop you from your other friendships!
Love Ya!
Maddy
Remember you'll always have your Laurens!
lol
i love lauren and lauren!!!jk
love Natalie
Oh I kno you do as sisters! Natalie is my cousin just in case anyone is wonderin! Call me if you need to talk about those three people!
THANKS COUS!!!!! ;)
im guessing im one of those people.
i didnt mean to make u guys mad i just wanted some advise because i feel left out some times. i am sorry!!!!!
I love ya guys too!!!!
I LUV YOU GUYS~
(football) :P :'( :'(
ur fricken awesome Kilynn.lol
wat do u mean football?
ROCK ON!!!!
LOVE YA!!!!
LOVE NATALIE
SO R U NATTIE!
nvm?
LUV YA 2!
love always,
Kilynn
OMG GUYS!!! Don't leave me out!!! I luv FOOTBALL!!!!(actually i don't) I luv BASKETBALL!!!!(guys are hot when they play basketball. besides patrick,austin,etc.)
Hey everyone... This topic had caused way too many problems... so if you would please don't post in it anymore! I can't delete it so this is what I'm doing instead!
Thanx,
Maddy!
...wow so many problems in your social life people....LOL...jk jk
Yeah.. I kno.... and most of the people that posted in here all go to my school... and were all having problems with each other!
Wow. I don't have any problems at my school. well if u count oh never mind. yes we do have lots of friend problems. i try to keep it to a minimum. unless i'm like totally pissed.
there are lots of problems going on right now i think... i just dont really understand
Yeah... I totally agree... I'm beginning to wonder about things... and well my friends and I are changing and kinda going seperate ways.... Idk
lol well now you're gonna really find out who your true friends are i guess
Yeah... LOL... Thats kinda ironic because this past weekend I really did find out who my true friends are and its a lot less than I thought! But I luv them so much. They are like sisters to me! NEVER GONNA FORGET THEM!
< Look at the pic!
Quote from: Maya Hexo on October 14, 2007, 02:35:29 AM
OMG GUYS!!! Don't leave me out!!! I luv FOOTBALL!!!!(actually i don't) I luv BASKETBALL!!!!(guys are hot when they play basketball. besides patrick,austin,etc.)
lol
yeah i agree. i dont get football or basketball(even though i did basketball for a year)!
i love u tooo
love natalie
I have a x-friend who last name starts with a Riech and she is an skdjfoiwejoi
OMG! WTF? AND MY NAME STARTS WITH REI NOT RIE!
Ok I know this is a REALLY old topic but I wanted to post in it cause I really need some advice.
((Note: People on here that Im friends with in real life, this is not directed towards anyone. I just really really want advice.))
Me and my friends are ALWAYS getting into some sort of fights and I usually aprear to be the one people are getting mad at but I dont know what Im doing wrong. Everytime I ask the person thats mad at me they change the subject or refuse to tell me. If they dont tell me how will I change? Am I really doing something wrong or are people just looking for an excuse to get mad at me?
Thanks and please respond!
(( I'm not replying to this as a friend, but someone that is giving advice.))
It seems like those people are just trying to make you mad. They change the subject just to make things worse. If I were you then I might just consider really confronting them and not stopping till you get an answer!
numerous times have i felt this way and i havent told any1 because its like when u say something to some1 that they dont like then they start harassing u and if u dont do what they say or if u dont take part in any od the harrasment then u are the potential victim (the threats arent huge but they are big enough to like make u fell unsafe if u dont do as ur told by them. they went to the extreme of if u dont do this well kick ur butt after school, they also do name calling)
I feel exactly the same way. Everyone is always mad at me and i dont understand what i did. idk. any advice?
Everyone thinks i'm a nerd, or a geek, no i don't have nerd glasses but i am no glamour girl
i get used, people who are cruel to me come and ask me for help at school
i'm sick
i'vae been made fun of for all my life and i want people to see me for a person not a genius (not to brag)
hey so ya know some of you people are talking about me and just to say srry even though i didn't do anything wrong people just need to get over iit soo wat Reichert if i broke up with Dylan so friggen what do you know since i don't want to be a part of this you guys that in know don't talk to me and i won't talk to you.
what the hey remmy i don't hate you (thanks for the info i know who u r now and um i insulted u earlier so sorry bout that!)
Ok, im kinda having some friend problems here so I need some help!
One of my guy friends has a huge crush on me. And he keeps on asking me out but I keep saying the same answer, no. But still he wont leave me alone, and its starting to get annoying. Is there anyway I can tell him to leave me alone, without being mean?
well i also need some friend help
i dont know but (okay im gonna make a odd name for the person)ecoboby has been kinda weird and different lately. Shes not fun anymore but more of a drama queen. I liked her, now i dont know! i kno this stupid thing causes drama and im not tryin to, but i just need advice. ecoboby is nice at first and then she gets mad at u out of nowhere, i dont know if u kno somethin to do wit time, or if she really does hate me and....well i dont know wat to do.
Quote from: Remmy on January 2, 2008, 09:35:35 AM
hey so ya know some of you people are talking about me and just to say srry even though i didn't do anything wrong people just need to get over iit soo wat Reichert if i broke up with Dylan so friggen what do you know since i don't want to be a part of this you guys that in know don't talk to me and i won't talk to you.
You want to know something Shelbe? You can blame me all you want for everything you please but I never did anything to make you mad. I also am not upset cause you broke up with Dylan. Im upset cause you said you hated me. How am I supossed to act like everything is perfect after that? I never did prank call you cause that would be a total waste of my time. And if your trying to start a fight, your definatly wasting your time.
P.S.-- I do have a first name. Use it.
Guys Chill Out! Stop the fighting. Is it really worth your time?
MADDY WOULD YOU DELETE THIS PLEASE
THAT IS A SUPER DUPER GOOD IDEA!
mhm I agree, this is causing more problems than it is fixing them
yeah you do have a name but i like this one better.
Riechert
Alright - I'm just going to pop in here. What a crap-tastic thread, really.
All of you need to quit it. Seriously.
If you have problems with each other in real life - oooo, that's great - but really, I, and most others on here, don't give much of a d**n. I am sick, and effing tired, of hearing the endless whining, complaining, fighting, bickering, badgering, and so on! I don't give a crap about your problems, and I sure as hell don't want to hear them, really.
No - it's not because I'm a coldhearted jerk.
I would care, possibly, if I even knew any of you at all.
But I don't.
You come on here for what seems like a few days/weeks whatever, and post mindless one-liners about the RPG forum, and then spend the rest of your time arguing!
Give. Me. A. BREAK.
Do you even know how immature and retarded you all sound?
Stop taking offense by the stupidest bullsh!t.
Just stop it.
You may have a bunch of self-centered, egotistical problems with yourself, and you group of friend-ies, but honestly?
HPFF was better off without you. And will be better off without you, unless you can clean up your act and begin to focus instead on the purpose of this site - the roleplaying. Believe me, nobody is the best, and everybody can keep getting better - but when all you're posting is "Oh.", because you're spending your time bickering like a moron - it not only gets annoying real fast - but it seriously pisses off the real members who want to get along, and post together.
Because really - you probably have no idea what kind of REAL problems are out there. Hell, I could tell you of many in my own world, for an example.
I have seen the darker side of things - and petty, immature fights such as these nowadays just DRIVE ME INSANE. I have bit my tongue through the first few stupid arguments - but it now seems like you can't even avoid the stupidity. What a shame.
If this were my site (and I've run and moderated quite a few, thanks) I would have made my point a long time ago. Clean it up, or get the hell out.
Stop fighting.
Or take it to another forum.
>.<
-Xaver.
we are so much alike thats what i thought DELETE THIS PIECE OF CRAP (and that is a word i never use
I AGREE
You can't just delete a topic and if you haven't noticed Maddie isn't around here anymore!
And you can just stop posting and then the topic would die...
i agree, im not gonna cause anymore drama anymore on hpf. so, who wants to change the topic??
I am in complete agree-ence with that. If that is a word. So ummmm..... lol a new topic?
How about?
Anybody read any good books lately?
actually yeah, its called forgotten fire! its good its about world wor 1!! this boy has lost pratically all of his family. im realy big sucker when it comes to sad books and movies!
Yeah, evry time you watch spirt, or bambi you start BALLING lol i am joking
cool. ((r u on aim?))
i am reading Anne Frank's diary for the 8th time. lol my fav book--<3!
i cant go on aim, remember theres a pop up blocker on this computer. :'(
ive wanted to read that book, but i dont have it and also i have lots of books to read.
Have you guys read the book Wicked?? It's the prequel to the Wizard of Oz.
no....but it sounds interesting
coolio.....
It's 407 pages, but it uses really long words, so only read it when you have alot of time on your hands.
wow...thats long! you must of been bored or somethin or ur just a really fast reader. im a really slow reader so i dont think i could read it.
thats freakin long... i usually read at least 10 pages of my 220 paged book.
lol Well at our school we have to do Book Talks, where you read a book and then give a talk about it (straight forward I know). So mine was on the Thursday, and it was friday and I pretty muh hadnt started the book yet, let alone written the talk for it. So I read it over about 6 days.