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Title: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 12, 2007, 09:07:04 AM
I know this probably sounds stupid, but I've been known to help people out with their problems and sometime I just like to post things for no reason sometimes. So if you need advice on something or just want to post something for no reason... post it here!
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Kilynn on October 12, 2007, 09:11:47 AM
I need advice on how to talk to a girl who wants to have nothing to do with me.
I really want to be friends with her, but i dont think she likes me.
I sometimes say stuff with out thinking, but doesn't everone, and im really sorry, and i want to say that to her but i cant find the right moment.
What should i do?
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: ~Callie~ on October 12, 2007, 09:22:43 AM
wow is that me? just a question... anyways heres my question...

what do u do if u like a guy... but ur not sure if u should???
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 12, 2007, 09:33:58 AM
Quote from: Kilynn on October 12, 2007, 09:11:47 AM
I need advice on how to talk to a girl who wants to have nothing to do with me.
I really want to be friends with her, but i dont think she likes me.
I sometimes say stuff with out thinking, but doesn't everone, and im really sorry, and i want to say that to her but i cant find the right moment.
What should i do?

Catch at a time where you can have her all attention. Just listen too. Don't argue when she tells you something and start to think more before you say something. And if you say something to someone that you know thats gonna get around don't say it at all just keep it to yourself. Ask her what you can do to become friends again and see what broke you up in the first place. And remember to tell her what she can do to improve ur relationship and remember tell the whole truth and nothing but! (i sound like a judge or somthing lol)
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 12, 2007, 09:36:20 AM
Quote from: ~Callie~ on October 12, 2007, 09:22:43 AM
wow is that me? just a question... anyways heres my question...

what do u do if u like a guy... but ur not sure if u should???

Just think about it for awhile. Do you really like him? Or is that you are afraid to like him because of what ur friends say? Ur friends should suppport you. But if hes someone that is major trouble and you know it its best that you don't actually like him. You can think hes hot but don't actually get into him! (v if you need to talk just im me or call the cell!)
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: natalie on October 13, 2007, 05:08:37 AM
 i have some friends who i think r talking behind my back. (3 friends to be exact)!!! wat should i do?
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Kilynn on October 13, 2007, 06:51:29 AM
Hey nat, is it me??? cause i sware im not~
if you think that they are talking behind ur back than ask them about it, maybe they were peer pressured into it, believe me it happens. but if u nicley ask them to stop and they continue ingonore this person 4 a couple of days and it will get to them, they will want you back as thier friend!!!
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 13, 2007, 07:03:03 AM
Quote from: natalie on October 13, 2007, 05:08:37 AM
i have some friends who i think r talking behind my back. (3 friends to be exact)!!! wat should i do?

Maybe you should include yourself more, or just give them no reason to talk about you. If you think that they are talking behind your back you really need to talk to them about it. They have absolutely no right to do that and you know that. You need to talk to them about it and soon so that they really dont get in the habit of that. I have a feeling that these friends talk about more than one person behind their backs.
Natalie you just need to talk about to them.
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddie on October 13, 2007, 07:51:28 AM
natalie i swear im not talking about u behind ur back! and neither is brooke if u think she is!
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: ~Callie~ on October 13, 2007, 07:53:20 AM
wow everyones going phyco (SP)
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: natalie on October 13, 2007, 07:56:49 AM
I HATE IT WHEN FRIENDS TALK BEHIND THEIR FRIENDS BACKS TOO!!!
ROCK ON!!!!
LOVE NATALIE
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: natalie on October 13, 2007, 08:03:59 AM
i am not mad at anyone!!!! i was just asking a question.
BE HAPPY ;D
LOVE NATALIE
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Vanessa on October 15, 2007, 03:08:41 AM
((i want advice not for anyone to start a fight))

What do you do when someone who you consider one of your best friends ditches you for someone else?

Thanks, Vanessa
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 15, 2007, 03:18:14 AM
Well... I think you should probably talk to the person. What ever you do do not talk about them! You just need to talk to them IN person! It makes everything seem so much better.

Good Luck,
Maddy
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Roniloveyou:) on October 16, 2007, 09:15:51 AM
I Haven't told my mom yet that i got married when i was in Las Vegas, how should i break it to her???
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 16, 2007, 09:33:51 AM
Really you should call and suggest that you have lunch with her or somthing. It would make everthing seem better. Once again face to face is so much better. You really... I mean really need to tell her. That is a big thing. When you talk to her, be casual and start off with something simple and just work your way up to telling her. She needs to know. And if I may say... WOW.

Hope this helps....
Maddy!
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Roniloveyou:) on October 16, 2007, 12:12:17 PM
I called her earlier we made reservations for dinner tomorrow. That sounds like an easy enough plan thanks :)

*yeah i know "wow"... i am very spontanious lol...
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 23, 2007, 03:08:51 AM
Okay... sounds good... AND if you want... Don't forget to post about how it went...
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Roniloveyou:) on October 23, 2007, 04:04:30 AM
it went really well, my mom has always liked my spouse so telling her we got married was no big deal  ;D so i'm glad, thanks for your advice. :)
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maya Mayhem on October 23, 2007, 05:22:54 AM
Man maddy ur friggin awsome. Anyways what do you do if your "friend" is suicidal???...it's not me i swear.
Title: Re: Something bugging you? Need advice? (post here)
Post by: Maddy on October 23, 2007, 05:36:36 AM
Wow... thats... scary. You really need to tell an adult... like ur parent or something.....

FREAKED OUT!

Maddy!