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General Discussion => General => Topic started by: Vanessa on November 2, 2007, 11:09:57 AM

Title: Relationship Problems
Post by: Vanessa on November 2, 2007, 11:09:57 AM
If you want help with crushes, dating, etc. I am happy to help.... Im just pretty bored right now so feel free to post.
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Ginny Weasly on November 2, 2007, 11:34:16 AM
I don't want any help, I just love telling people my story.

You know, kinda like a work towards this kinda thing.

When I was in the 8th grade, this kid named Scott transfered to our school. He was in all of my afternoon clases, and since we were seated alphabeticlly in most clasess, he sat near me. At the time, I was dating this kid named Steve, but it wasn't really working out. We were both just kinda dating each other to be dating someone. So we broke it off.

Scott spent that entire year hitting on me, but I never noticed. I just thought he was the gofy kid who sat near me. So the next year, our freshmen year in highschool, he finally started talking to me online as well as in school. He asked me to the Christmas Ball, but I didn't really want to go cause I hate our school dances. So we just got to be closer and closer friends. That January, he asked me to stay after school with him and we left school grounds, going for a nice walk and just talking about things.

I swear to God that was the day I really began falling in love with him...<3

Anyway, on March 14th of 2006 when me, him and a few of my friends were at a dance (they had paid me to go XD) my two friends turned around and glared at us saying "Just ask her out already!" So he grabbed my hand, twirled me from where I stood and said, "Will you go out with me? Will you be my girlfriend?" I nodded, "Well, DUH!" I told him. At first, we were both kinda wary, wondering if the other was joking. But neither was, and that night we danced our first dance together, me falling asleep in his arms.

We have been dating since then, and I must tell you, I love this boy more then life itself. I would do anything for him, and I know he'd do anything for me.

When I was hurting myself last November, he got me to stop by simply telling me this, "When I see those scars on your arm...it isn't just hurting you. It's hurting me. It feels like your cutting my heart up."

Him and I have been through so much together. <3 I wish happiness like ours on everyone!
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Vanessa on November 2, 2007, 10:23:58 PM
aww that is a cute story
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Voldyrocks01 on November 3, 2007, 06:32:03 AM
My relationships suck. Girls think i'm "hot" but uh...well i don't wanna go out with anybody till i know it's a "connection" lol i know it's stupid but i need the right person.
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: fudge0604 on November 3, 2007, 03:20:55 PM
Well i am a boy and i cannot say cute! In a girly way but..... CUTE!

lol......
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Kilynn on November 4, 2007, 02:33:24 AM
yeah super cute story!
Congrats!
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Ginny Weasly on November 5, 2007, 01:42:07 AM
Quote from: Voldyrocks01 on November  3, 2007, 06:32:03 AM
My relationships suck. Girls think i'm "hot" but uh...well i don't wanna go out with anybody till i know it's a "connection" lol i know it's stupid but i need the right person.

How can you find the connection if you never really look for it? But besides that, it's not stupid. Something I forgot to add in my story, I refused to tell Scot that I loved him until I was sure about it. (3-4 months in our relationship...)
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Maddy on November 5, 2007, 01:47:53 AM
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on November  2, 2007, 11:34:16 AM
I don't want any help, I just love telling people my story.

You know, kinda like a work towards this kinda thing.

When I was in the 8th grade, this kid named Scott transfered to our school. He was in all of my afternoon clases, and since we were seated alphabeticlly in most clasess, he sat near me. At the time, I was dating this kid named Steve, but it wasn't really working out. We were both just kinda dating each other to be dating someone. So we broke it off.

Scott spent that entire year hitting on me, but I never noticed. I just thought he was the gofy kid who sat near me. So the next year, our freshmen year in highschool, he finally started talking to me online as well as in school. He asked me to the Christmas Ball, but I didn't really want to go cause I hate our school dances. So we just got to be closer and closer friends. That January, he asked me to stay after school with him and we left school grounds, going for a nice walk and just talking about things.

I swear to God that was the day I really began falling in love with him...<3

Anyway, on March 14th of 2006 when me, him and a few of my friends were at a dance (they had paid me to go XD) my two friends turned around and glared at us saying "Just ask her out already!" So he grabbed my hand, twirled me from where I stood and said, "Will you go out with me? Will you be my girlfriend?" I nodded, "Well, DUH!" I told him. At first, we were both kinda wary, wondering if the other was joking. But neither was, and that night we danced our first dance together, me falling asleep in his arms.

We have been dating since then, and I must tell you, I love this boy more then life itself. I would do anything for him, and I know he'd do anything for me.

When I was hurting myself last November, he got me to stop by simply telling me this, "When I see those scars on your arm...it isn't just hurting you. It's hurting me. It feels like your cutting my heart up."

Him and I have been through so much together. <3 I wish happiness like ours on everyone!

Wow... Thats an awesome story... If only something like that would happen to ME! lol
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Molly on November 5, 2007, 05:52:03 AM
but don't cut yourself maddy
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Ginny Weasly on November 5, 2007, 11:45:58 AM
She's right, don't cut yourself. The scars take a long time to fade...
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: ChoChangHP118 on November 8, 2007, 06:44:42 AM
aww what a...a....i cant find the word...lovely...lol that doesnt sound to good, oh well what a lovable story. (scott is pretty cute i must say lol)
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Ginny Weasly on November 8, 2007, 06:48:13 AM
Quote from: ChoChangHP118 on November  8, 2007, 06:44:42 AM
aww what a...a....i cant find the word...lovely...lol that doesnt sound to good, oh well what a lovable story. (scott is pretty cute i must say lol)

He'll love hearing that!
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Maddy on November 8, 2007, 09:40:44 AM
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on November  5, 2007, 11:45:58 AM
She's right, don't cut yourself. The scars take a long time to fade...

There's no way I would ever ever cut myself! I meant the love part of it!
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: Vanessa on November 8, 2007, 09:43:12 AM
((another thing, if you dont want to say it outloud you can PM me!))
Title: Re: Relationship Problems
Post by: ChoChangHP118 on November 9, 2007, 07:07:20 AM
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on November  8, 2007, 06:48:13 AM
Quote from: ChoChangHP118 on November  8, 2007, 06:44:42 AM
aww what a...a....i cant find the word...lovely...lol that doesnt sound to good, oh well what a lovable story. (scott is pretty cute i must say lol)

He'll love hearing that!
ah hahahaha what can i say, its true :P