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Friends......(If ur having friend problems...post here.)

Started by Maddy, October 8, 2007, 12:08:29 PM

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Maddy

Has anyone ever felt like someone really wasn't ur friend, but they said they were? I deffinatly have! I am posting this because I don't know what else to do. The so called friendship has gone on for so long. I helped this person so many times. I was so nice to her. She has hurt me. She called me names.... she talked about me behind my back. I have cried over this person numerous times. I can't stand people hating me so I have to clear things up. It never seems to work. She agrees but then she always ends up turning on me. I have just given up. I don't even care anymore. I just want to..... forget that I ever met this person. If anyone was felt this way... just post.

Sky

I've kind of felt that way. If she is acting like a jerk to you, then tell her not to speak to you and find a better friend. It not fair that you are trying to be a good friend and she just talks crap. Trust me. If she was your friend, she would fix things herself.

fudge0604

I have had the same problem...... I am friends with someone i've been friends nearly all my life. She has allways picked her other friends. She is nearly allways cruel too someone. When we fight yeah......
She allways sais something without thinking! And many times she has hurt me and my feelings just because she lies too me all the time.... But sometimes we can have fun but right now i just wannao away...


Post Potter depression.

Maya Mayhem

#3
Well two of my friends are in a fight and I think it's because of religion or something.

Maddy

Quote from: Maya Mayhem on October 10, 2007, 05:32:55 AM
Well two of my friends are in a fight and I think it's because of religion or something. I don't know who to trust lately and I feel like I should just break away from everybody. I've told my bff things about her that I wish she'd just stop doing but she won't tell me what annoys her about me. But I still can't tell any of my friends anything and I wish they'd just keep me out of things. One of my friends,when some girl likes a guy she has to like him too and everyone finds that annoying(especially me with a boy named dalton)but when she likes a guy no one can like him. It's so friggin annoying. I hope that I'm not like any of my friends cause you know what I'm already dying under the pressure of concealing my feelings.

Maya you shouldn't conceal ur feelings. Talk to your mom or something. You need to tell your friends how you feel. They should understand and if they don't they're not good friends. When you keep you feelings inside bad things happen....

Hailey

well, two of my friends were fighting.  And the two that were fighting were best friends with each other.  But what one of them does is try to get me in the middle of it even though they know there is nothing I can do about it. Then she acts like my best friend, but when they get done fighting with their other best friend, They stop being my friend completly. So they basically just use you to get back at their friend. I hate that!

Maddy

I know exactly how you feel. My friends sometimes act like that too. I sware all of the instances that people have posted have happened to me and my friends. Its almost creepy how much girls are alike when it comes to fighting.

Vanessa

yeahh i kno how everyone feels... i have a friend who has stabbed me in the back one to many times
--Taken--

Maddy

Quote from: Vanessa on October 11, 2007, 06:48:36 AM
yeahh i kno how everyone feels... i have a friend who has stabbed me in the back one to many times

Yep..... Same person.... Same things... She never seems to quit either.

Maya Hexo

Wow. Sounds just like all my friends. Except the fact that I have none. Besides on here. This is my only get away.

LordBlaZe

wow you guys have a lot of drama, i see that a lot with my friends that are girls. Mostly with guys we'll joke around with each other like 24/7 but we're good friends so we're not gonna like stab each other in the back or anything.
Ten Percent Luck
Twenty Percent Skill
Fifteen Percent Concentrated Power Of Will
Five Percent Pleasure
Fifty Percent Pain
One Hundred Percent Reason To Remember The Name

Maddie

yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!

        any advice? :-\
with love.........Maddie! :-*

Seth

Quote from: Maddie on October 12, 2007, 06:39:37 AM
yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!

        any advice? :-\
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Yeah. I kno how you feel. I kno this proply sounds stupid but i have this group of like five guys that are always mean to everyone and puposely cause fights just to make people mad. They spread rumors about people and then blame it on someone else just to cause a fight. It makes me so mad. and it always seems like every other guy wants to be a part of the group. NOT ME!

Kilynn

Quote from: Maddie on October 12, 2007, 06:39:37 AM
yeah, i have quite a few problems with these two girls at my school. Ones really mean to me, and the other is some times. i dont kno what their problem is! they always go out of their way to cause fights, and it is so annoying!

        any advice? :-\

Yeah, Maddie I know how you feel and if you need anything pm me. I have a girl like that at my school and she is always mean to me no matter how hard i try to be her friend. She just won't accept me as i am. Once again, any advice? :-\
i got kissed lol ;p "If ur having problems with someone, walk a mile in their shoes, then you are a mile away, and you have thier shoes"-Annonymous~

Maddy

Maybe you should ask her why she is like that and listen. She may have a really good reason... you never know. Same with Maddie just ask the girls... they may have reasons.