Friends......(If ur having friend problems...post here.)

[Maddie]

i try, but when i do, they get mad, and sometimes yell. they try to make sides, and tell lies about me and a few of my "real" friends. they have also told my secrets to people, and get mad when u like a guy that they like. i dont really see what the big deal is.


                                               any advice?  :-\

[dobby888]

There is this girl at my school, and she is so popular, and everyone loves her, and I don;t exactly understand why! She is pretty, yes, but not that smart (no offense to her), and she gossips about people!! I mean, I don't gossip, I am smart, and I (in my opinion) am pretty! So, why is she so great, and I'm not! I mean she's nice to people, to a certain extent, and I a too!! Seriously, what am I doing so wrong!?

[Maddy]

Well maybe you should just let them yell and get everything out and then you have your turn. Your relationship may just need some work, so talk it out. And liking someone that ur friend likes is best just to keep to ur self because that hurts when you have told someone one of your deepest secrets and they go and hurt you by saying that they like that person too.
(if this has anything to do why um..... me pm me please maddie)

((this is to maddie))

[Maddy]

There is this girl at my school, and she is so popular, and everyone loves her, and I don;t exactly understand why! She is pretty, yes, but not that smart (no offense to her), and she gossips about people!! I mean, I don't gossip, I am smart, and I (in my opinion) am pretty! So, why is she so great, and I'm not! I mean she's nice to people, to a certain extent, and I a too!! Seriously, what am I doing so wrong!?

Thats a hard on. I have someone like that at my school. I don't understand why that is either, but when I get to thinking about it its probably because shes easy.... and all the guys like that. Why.... i have no idea! Is she easy?

[dobby888]

I don't know what you mean, but everyone likes her, and there are girls that in like 3rd grade when popularity didnt matter, and they were really nice, but then it started to matter, and they went out of there way to be inn the IN cround and I just say hey, you can do what you want, but I'm a loser and that's ok, I have real friends.((but I dont really say that.... well I do say the loser part, but you get my point.))

[Maddie]

Me and my bff always seem like the bad guy, though. What should we do to be friends with her?

[Maddy]

Like i said you just need to talk it out. Telling the whole truth feels so much better. If something has gotten in the way of your friendship maybe you need to tell her that. Maybe theres just a reason why you always seem to be the bad guy... something that only one person knows. (this is for maddie)

And dobby... what i meant by easy is that all the guys like her because she lets the guys get whatever they want out of her and ur most likely not like that. You are probably much more reserved and maybe you just need to loosen up just a smidge. I was the same way and I did that and the guys actually took more of an interest in me and most of the guys don't make fun of me anymore. They are my friends now. It also might just be the age. When guys are in 6th and 7th grade they are really immature, but when they get to about 8th some of them start to mature a little. Although it depends what they are like in the first place.

[Maya Hexo]

Maddy I totally agree with you. Guys can be total jerks sometimes but when they get older they get more mature. I always use to hang around guys when I was little. They kind of talk to me but since their still in Japan we send emails.

[Maddy]

Oh... It must stink to not have your friends around.... But yeah... I have two brothers and im the only girl. Also im stuck in the middle. And thats not exactly fun. They do eventually mature. Some faster than others! Just hold on guys! They'll grow up!

[Maya Hexo]

i hope. :-\

[Kilynn]

I am so with you there. i used to like this guy, but hes completely immature in a sorta good way, but i dont want to hurt my friends so i can't like him. hes sorta monkey-ish anyway!
(right, lauren, lauren, shelbes, lex, and rachy)

[Vanessa]

IM OVER HIM! i like someone else who will go unnamed... anyways it was only painfull in that getting over stage im not trying to hold u back

[Kilynn]

I'm pretty much over him to, hes really not worth it, right?

[Maddy]

There's no way in the world that a guy is worth more than a friend. And monkey man is totally not worth it.

[dobby888]

Haha!  No, I'm fine with her being all popular, because as my mom says *every one is popular with their own group of friends* So, maybe that group isnt my type, and maybe I'll grow to like them... who knows!?