Boyfriend Trouble

[dobby888]

I also wouldn't announce it online for everyone and their brother to see. I may joke from time to time, but I would never seriously detail my intimate relationships with a bunch of middle schoolers. Sorry guys.

I'm not a middle schooler anymore!!
Yay for me!! I'm officially in high school, and ready for anything! (almost...)
It's ok, I probably wouldn't announce it to middle schoolers either...

[Ginny Weasly]

Let me rephrase that...I wouldn't announce it to anyone.
My romantic life is no one's business but my own and what little I do tell you guys is open for observation.

[w i n t e r]

xD Just keep your noses outta her romantic life.
It's that simple.

And I'm not in middle school. xD
Junior in a week. xD

[Dobby_ROX]

I'm in high school next in '10!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!

[I loves YOUz]

Okay.. So I'm with this guy. We'll call him J. lol..
so I get confused all the time.. I mean like we've been together for 8 months on the 15th.
We get along. we dont argue much. he's 18 so only 3 years older then me.
My dad and nanny don't mind us seeing eachother.
niether does his parents. His mom and him come get me for my lunch at work everyday.
We like each very much. and don't have much problems..

*but I'm still scared he's gonna hurt me cuz he has hurt other girls- like breaking hearts hurt. and Idk if I can trust him all the time..*

*like I dont text other guys cuz he doesn't like it and he dont text other girls cuz I dont like it.. but thats like not trusting eachother..*

*He is very emotional and is hard to talk to about trust and things like that*

*but he's easy to talk about other stuff with*

*he's very sweet and jus plain amazing*

*but I get the feeling sometimes that he lies to me*

*but he always tells me if I dont believe him to text his mom cuz shes always with him*

*so should I trust him completely or not*

[Bucky Black]

I'd be careful Billy!!!! But still stay with him.But some men just want one thing.



There's this girl

She's just a very close friend

I had a dream where she was with me at school and when i was talking to here 'I love yo' came out then I tryed to by it off that I was thinking about my mum (LOL weird dream) but now I fell diffrent around her like I just want to hug her and nether let go and she's not good looking so it can't be a physical attraction (LOL sorry Je.) and I always tell myself 'Love is something you couldn't imagine this is just a crush' But this seems diffrent to the rest.

[goblet_fulla_fire]

To Bucky:







In other news, my girlfriend broke up with me. The whole situation is complicated so I won't outline it, but it took its toll emotionally... on me.

I'm 97% over it though.

[Ginny Weasly]

Heehee...that picture...just made my day.

Okay.. So I'm with this guy. We'll call him J. lol..
so I get confused all the time.. I mean like we've been together for 8 months on the 15th.
We get along. we dont argue much. he's 18 so only 3 years older then me.
My dad and nanny don't mind us seeing eachother.
niether does his parents. His mom and him come get me for my lunch at work everyday.
We like each very much. and don't have much problems..

*but I'm still scared he's gonna hurt me cuz he has hurt other girls- like breaking hearts hurt. and Idk if I can trust him all the time..*

Everyone is afraid of that. My boyfriend is positivly amazing so far, and I'm still afraid of getting hurt.

*like I dont text other guys cuz he doesn't like it and he dont text other girls cuz I dont like it.. but thats like not trusting eachother..*

This is stupid. Honestly. I don't know about anyone else, but I've found that a relationship where you can't have friends of the opposite gender without your significant other's approval to be absolutely too controlling.
If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.

*He is very emotional and is hard to talk to about trust and things like that*

*but he's easy to talk about other stuff with*

*he's very sweet and jus plain amazing*

*but I get the feeling sometimes that he lies to me*

*but he always tells me if I dont believe him to text his mom cuz shes always with him*

*so should I trust him completely or not*

This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
And the thing with his mom....THAT creeps me out. You said he's 18? And he's always with his mommy? So many problems there I can't even count on both hands.

I don't know if you can trust him. I know, with what you've given me, that I don't trust him.He reminds me so much of this guy a friend of mine used to date...and that was a bad relationship.
I can't tell you what to do, but I'm going to ask you to be careful.

[Alexis]

This is stupid. Honestly. I don't know about anyone else, but I've found that a relationship where you can't have friends of the opposite gender without your significant other's approval to be absolutely too controlling.

I honestly don't like that either. 
I've been in some relationships where the guy doesn't talk to any other girls besides me.  Then, he expects me to do the same thing.  It feels like I'm being smothered. 
If he wants to do it, it's fine, but don't expect me to do the same thing.

[goblet_fulla_fire]

I would only draw the line with the people who relentlessly flirt with said boyfriend/girlfriend.

That wouldn't be right.

[I loves YOUz]

If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.
^
I do.. except like a couple guys

This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
^
I kinda like him bein like that cuz to a point it shows he cares.

And the thing with his mom....THAT creeps me out. You said he's 18? And he's always with his mommy?
^
He has nothin better to do.. lol

I don't know if you can trust him. I know, with what you've given me, that I don't trust him.He reminds me so much of this guy a friend of mine used to date...and that was a bad relationship.
I can't tell you what to do, but I'm going to ask you to be careful.
^
I do trust him to a point. and I'm bein really careful. I'm pretty sure he would have already left me if he jus want to yea... so I think he does like me.. I mean everyone tells me that I have changed him.. and I didn't want to or even try to change him.

[Ginny Weasly]

If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.
^
I do.. except like a couple guys

This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
^
I kinda like him bein like that cuz to a point it shows he cares.

That's stupidity talking. If he cares, he'll show it in other ways. Getting upset isn't the way to show you care. Buying flowers randomly, or simply giving you his coat when you are cold, or suggesting you guys rent a movie and cuddle up to watch it one night...those are ways to show he cares.

Oh, and what I meant by my friend's bad relationship. It wasn't about sex. He ended up being abusive. Don't say he'd never do that. Anyone is capable of it, all it takes is snapping once and getting away with it. The overly emotional thing is simply a symptom of it.

Also, just so we are all clear, people who usually seek advice subconsciously know that something is wrong and want some kind of validation that they are wrong. People in crumbling relationships ask for advice, then defend the relationship. It's this weird thing called psychology.

[goblet_fulla_fire]

Also, just so we are all clear, people who usually seek advice subconsciously know that something is wrong and want some kind of validation that they are wrong. People in crumbling relationships ask for advice, then defend the relationship. It's this weird thing called psychology.

*smoking a pipe*
Hmm, "psychology" you say?

Interesting.

[Ginny Weasly]

Yeah. It's this new thing that changes every twenty minutes depending on the newest 'expert'.

[potter_fan122]

Is it normal for guys to act normal around you, but as soon as you don`t see each other for a while they get all... like, talkative?