Hey... I know it's hard for girls out there, so I wanted to make a place for you to let out your grief and/or anger about boys. Whether or not you're dating them, feel free to let go of your emotions (just not on other people). Tons of girls get super worked up about a guy and then take it out on someone else. This is just in order to maybe make the world a little bit better... and nicer.
((By the way, feel free to talk about your HPF relationships too!))
Finally! I'm worried, I have had a crush on this boy in my class since pretty much kindergarten, I think I may be losing him to others. He has become objects of others. I have had a crush on him for 9 years! What do I do???? I don't wanna embarrass myself. I know he doesn't like me back, though I'm not sure... I'm still working on a mystery of who sent me a Candy Gram we had last year. Help me!!!
Ok, so I have a major problem so I'm gonna vent. Theres this guy (duh) and he is ssssooooo hot! You know the kind of hot that turns your heart into butter sliding down warm bread? Anyways, he's going out with one of my friends, and she always talks about him and stuff and I don't want to say anything because well.... you know? SO.... It really, really sucks butt.
I know exactly what you're talking about! I like this guy, and he had been going out with one of my friends friends (we're acquaintances). The only reason they were going out though was because one of my friends texted him and was like "hey I think brittany likes you" And then he walked to their house (which is really close by) and asked her out. Just because of one text. They made it sound so easy! And then ever time that they would sit together at lunch, they would barely even look at each other! And they always complained about the other person! Especially the guy! And I was like, "So break up with her!" and he just goes "No... I cant do that"
Tehehe. That was funny. I sympathize with you though. SOmetimes guys can be so thick headed and have no idea what a girl is trying to say. I apologize to any guys. I didn't mean to be sexist or anything... but really?
I know! And Brittany would always make him do stuff. He told be about how they could never hang out because she didn't want her mom to find out, so they were 'dating' but they hardly talked or saw each other except in school! It was so pointless!
UGH! I have a crush ((butter on warm bread, as Jackie put it)) but he`s a little older than me. That doesn`t bother me much, because I`ve always acted older than I am and I have friends in high school. But he`s my best friend`s sister. My friend is younger than me, but she`s so awesome. Anyway, he`s so hot, but my mom doesn`t want me to date, let alone someone older than me. I know we`d never have a chance, but that`s what bugs me the most. And her doesn`t even know.
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One of my best guy friends likes me. He denies it to everyone, but I can tell. As if it wasn`t obvious. He sits nexts to me, and talks to me, and flirts with me, and makes me laugh, and every other flirting possibility basically, then denies liking me. And everyone thinks he likes me. People in Scholastic Bowl keep asking him if he`s asked me out yet. It`s annoying, even though I`d probably agree if he asked me out. He`s a really nice guy.
((Note: I`m a sucker for a romance.))
Trust me, you guys. This kinda stuff only gets harder as you get older. The world stops being as black and white and grey becomes a common occurrence.
For example....
When I was 15, I started dating a boy named Scott. We were in the 9th grade at the time, and we really liked each other. Believe it or not, I stayed with him for THREE years. I mean, during that three years, we only broke up once...for three days. We did fall in love. However, back in October I met this boy named Eric at this party for my niece. At this same party, Scott was acting like a total retard (along with various other names I have for that) and I was upset. Eric followed me into the kitchen and talked to me.
I really liked him.
At any rate, he and I stayed friends. Even though we shouldn't have, it caused us both a lot of problems. I won't go into too much detail with the problems that were caused, simply because I wish to forget them.
In February, I found out that Scott liked someone else a whole lot. I've never been the jealous type. Honestly, I couldn't have cared less if he hung out with other girls. But he really liked her. It bothered me because I felt like I had done something wrong, something that caused him to seek approval from someone else. He told me I hadn't done anything wrong, that he just liked her.
So I didn't say anything when they'd go hang out. I didn't say anything when he texted her constantly. I didn't say anything when Scott would call her and talk to her for almost an hour...
Instead, I decided to hang out with Eric more. He was really nice to me and he made me laugh. This really bothered Scott. I don't know why, nothing was going on with Eric and I, even though I did like him. I never admitted this to Scott, because I knew how much it hurt.
So, Scott and I decided that since we are graduating in about a month, we should break up. Truth was, we would never see each other and it wasn't fair to tie each other down.
I loved (and still do love) Scott. And I really like Eric. After Scott and I broke up, we started hanging out more until he went home for the summer. (He goes to college nearby.)
So here's the problem...
I care about Scott and his feelings. I don't ever want to hurt him, but I can't stand being miserable anymore. I can't stand feeling as though I'm always in 2nd...after his games or something. And Eric doesn't want anything serious (which is actually cool with me). I like Eric a whole bunch. He's funny and nice and cares about me too.
It's not cut and dry. It never will be. Either way, I end up crying sometimes...because it's all confusing.
Wow... that's pretty intense. It seems like that happens a lot. Where one person starts falling for another, so they break up to help the other person... It's almost as if you're telling them that you love them by breaking up with them.
This really annoying guy like me and I sit by him in Math and homeroom. It drives me crazy, because I can tell that he likes me. And he's so annoying, I can hardly stand it!
Aye you can all have me
LOL
Can we make this GF trouble too?
Because Jes** I have a lot??
You're waaaay too young for me Bucky, haha.
And awe, I went out with this other guy last night. Known him for years but never spent time alone with him. He was really fun to hang out with. And it was cute cause he gave me his hooodie when I was cold, and I didn't even ask. haha.
Meanwhile, I'm making plans to go see Eric, haha.
I'm going to see the Terminator with Sam this weekend! I can't wait! We haven't like set a time or anything, but still... YAY! ;D ;D
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on May 18, 2009, 06:42:16 PM
You're waaaay too young for me Bucky, haha.
Hahaha.... wouldn't that be illegal?
Very much so considering the age of consent varies by place but a general rule of thumb is now that I'm 18 I can't date anyone thats more than four years younger than me. Unless that person is also over 18 then the diffrence doesn't matter. Haha.
Yeah... then it would be okay!
I'm not having boyfriend trouble! I just got asked out by the guy (s) that I've liked for about 3 months.... I'm so happy! He's totally opened up to me know... I feel like he'd tell me anything... now I like him even more!
*Cough*
:D Hi people!
*Looks at the ceiling * Remember what I said about what you should answer this S, if he asked you out Jessie?
Remember Albus! He will be sad! :'''''''''''(
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Like that! :O
:D Its going slow with my boyfriend trouble, since I don't have one! ;D
I'm sorry Albus! I totally forgot! If it happens to come up though... I'll be sure to mention it!
We sat together at lunch today... it was really awkward because there were five people on the bench so we were like squished up against each other... luckily we only have one more lunch at school together!
:D
I can't but laugh at other having romances. It's an immature problem that I have! x D
((B)) Okay, he says that he still likes me, and he promises that I`m the only girl he likes. Then he asked her out and gives a card to my best friend. He denies it all, even though HIS handwriting is in her notebook.
Guys are stupid.
((No offense.))
((M))And then there`s him. He says he doesn`t like me, but everyone says he does, and I think he does to. He`s an amazing guy, but he`s my best friend. I`m still having trouble with the last guy that was my best friend.
((J1))And then he just graduated. I never thought it was like that until M asked me about him.
TOO MANY STUPID PEOPLE! *Cries* ((Not really...))
We are stupid. But there are points where guys don't get girls too!
Yeah, but I`m a girl, so I think guys are stupid and I enjoy making boys confused. ;)
You're a girl?
^^
>:( YES!
:P He talks too much. He was texting me for... two hours? Yeah, two hours. And he says it doesn`t mean anything. Well, if someone else read some of the things he asked me.....
That's just stupidity...
^^
STOP BEING CONFUSING! I was talking to M earlier and he wouldn`t stop talking. I think I know what it means, but stop!
*Runs away with hands clamped over ears.*
Oh jeeze oh jeeze oh jeeze. This boy is so amazingly sweet and nice and cute too. Oh jeeze. I'm so scared of messing this up. Oh GAWD. Why is he so nice? Oh jeeze.
Oh jeeze...I'm liking him way too much. Oh...man...I REALLY like him.
Ohmigosh. Ohmigosh. Ohmigosh.
I know exactly what you mean, Ginny. I`m freaking out. Why did he say that? Why, oh why?!?!?!
Wow... you guys are totally freaking out...
I have the Dinner Dance tomorrow night and I sunburnt my face this weekend :(
His birthday is this Sunday and I have no idea what to get him! I was thinking of making him a CD of my all-time favorites, but that's a really small gift... Any Ideas?
Also... my dress for Dinner Dance is purple... what color do I paint my nails?
French manicure or silver.
And why would A say that? I didn`t even think about him!
I I'm quite sure this girl likes me and I like her.
This might sound stupid but I am too afraid to ask her I need lots help..
I got myself my first girlfriend recently. Have a cheer for Goblet!
(....yay, go Goblet)
I've always been a bit stingy on who I would chance a relationship with which is why I've never got one before now. Thankfully there was a girl who lived up to my standards and conversely I lived up to hers. The only catch is that she lives an hour away from where I live so whenever I go over there, I try to make a point of staying for most of the day.
Also her stepmom is a Mormon and she doesn't trust our hormones.
(Go Goblet, Go!)
Haha... Members of the opposite sex are always extremely confusing.
Well, I just broke up with someone.
No offense girls, but when people get clingy...
Definitely shuts you down.
You're not allowed to do anything without making them sad.
It's definitely irritating and extremely annoying.
But, being a sophomore, another will always pop up.
Doesn't matter anyway.
Oh well, life still marches, beating on its drums and it leaves those who couldn't keep up with the beat behind.
We should help the problems
You could say I am afraid to ask her and you would be absolutely 100% on the money!!!! PLEASE HELP !!!!
Just do it.
It's easy.
Well... not all the time, but you should be able to do it.
Yay for Goblet.
And my cousin is a Mormon...they're strange.
I actually have no problems with my boyfriend thus far....(yes, I did get on recently).
The problems there are stem from my ex boyfriend because he's a whiny little baby.
My new boyfriend is thus far amazing.
So my boyfriend just got grounded for the first time ever, but he still has his phone, which I think is strange...
(I think it feels really awesome to say MY BOYFRIEND)
It's good to know your talking about me.
Mweh mweh. :D
Kidding!
That was a bit lame, from my side, but I like being lame! ^^
Haha yes of course I was talking about you... ::)
It's ok, I totally get it, I love being lame! (most of the time)
Well, I'm having a few boyfriend problems going on right now.
I'm not necessarily asking for help, I'm mainly just asking for y'all to hear me out and maybe tell me any suggestions or opinions you have.
Okay, well I've been dating this guy...we'll call him S.
I've been dating S for about 8 months now. He is my age and we get along pretty good most of the time. I'm mean sure we've had our ups-and-downs but who hasn't?
We've broken up about five times since him and I have been dating.
Well, now I've met this guy...we'll call him T.
T is amazingly adorable, smart, funny, and extremely outgoing. We both really like each other, but the problem is he is about to be three years older than me.
I'm not really sure what I should do because me and T want to date each other, but my parents won't allow it, also theres S...
My parents probably wouldn't know about me and T dating...but still.
Any suggestions?
Well you pretty much have two options:
Follow your Parents:
Pros:
Don't get in trouble (for this)
Keep your parents trust
Cons:
Don't get the guy
Follow your Heart:
Pros:
You get the guy.
Cons:
You get in trouble if/when your parents find out.
Possibly get crap from friends who don't like you dating older guys
Hurt your current boyfriend
I hope that ^^ helped, but I'm sure you already thought about all of those reasons...
Yeah, those do sound like good reasons.
It wouldn't be that hard to hide it from my parents, they don't really know about half the boyfriends I've had. I guess they don't really mind unless they're older...
Thanks. =]
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on June 4, 2009, 10:15:08 PM
Yay for Goblet.
And my cousin is a Mormon...they're strange.
I actually have no problems with my boyfriend thus far....(yes, I did get on recently).
The problems there are stem from my ex boyfriend because he's a whiny little baby.
My new boyfriend is thus far amazing.
I'm sorry but I'm confused....What do you mean by yes, 'I did get on recently'.... Is it what I think or not. sorry for asking but just wondering if I'm sick minded or that's what you really meant. Alas I like choclate.
I think she meant to say: I did get one recently.
No problem! I'm glad I could help out!
No I mean what does that mean????
http://www.rovedaily.com.au/video.htm?channel=Just+Added&clipid=2491_rv_9_rovedaily_15_090525&bitrate=300&format=flash
LOL!!!!!!!!!!! Watch this Alright!!
I did mean one. I forgot the letter "e".
It means recently I began dating my boyfriend. Nothing dirty about it, however I am 18. So I am legally allowed to be promiscuous...but I don't recommend it to anyone. Haha.
I also wouldn't announce it online for everyone and their brother to see. I may joke from time to time, but I would never seriously detail my intimate relationships with a bunch of middle schoolers. Sorry guys.
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on June 5, 2009, 05:04:14 PM
I did mean one. I forgot the letter "e".
It means recently I began dating my boyfriend. Nothing dirty about it, however I am 18. So I am legally allowed to be promiscuous...but I don't recommend it to anyone. Haha.
I also wouldn't announce it online for everyone and their brother to see. I may joke from time to time, but I would never seriously detail my intimate relationships with a bunch of middle schoolers. Sorry guys.
I would recommend it LOL jokes jokes!!!!
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on June 5, 2009, 05:04:14 PM
I also wouldn't announce it online for everyone and their brother to see. I may joke from time to time, but I would never seriously detail my intimate relationships with a bunch of middle schoolers. Sorry guys.
I'm not a middle schooler anymore!!
Yay for me!! I'm officially in high school, and ready for anything! (almost...)
It's ok, I probably wouldn't announce it to middle schoolers either...
Let me rephrase that...I wouldn't announce it to anyone.
My romantic life is no one's business but my own and what little I do tell you guys is open for observation.
xD Just keep your noses outta her romantic life.
It's that simple.
And I'm not in middle school. xD
Junior in a week. xD
I'm in high school next in '10!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!
Okay.. So I'm with this guy. We'll call him J. lol..
so I get confused all the time.. I mean like we've been together for 8 months on the 15th.
We get along. we dont argue much. he's 18 so only 3 years older then me.
My dad and nanny don't mind us seeing eachother.
niether does his parents. His mom and him come get me for my lunch at work everyday.
We like each very much. and don't have much problems..
*but I'm still scared he's gonna hurt me cuz he has hurt other girls- like breaking hearts hurt. and Idk if I can trust him all the time..*
*like I dont text other guys cuz he doesn't like it and he dont text other girls cuz I dont like it.. but thats like not trusting eachother..*
*He is very emotional and is hard to talk to about trust and things like that*
*but he's easy to talk about other stuff with*
*he's very sweet and jus plain amazing*
*but I get the feeling sometimes that he lies to me*
*but he always tells me if I dont believe him to text his mom cuz shes always with him*
*so should I trust him completely or not*
I'd be careful Billy!!!! But still stay with him.But some men just want one thing.
There's this girl
She's just a very close friend
I had a dream where she was with me at school and when i was talking to here 'I love yo' came out then I tryed to by it off that I was thinking about my mum (LOL weird dream) but now I fell diffrent around her like I just want to hug her and nether let go and she's not good looking so it can't be a physical attraction (LOL sorry Je.) and I always tell myself 'Love is something you couldn't imagine this is just a crush' But this seems diffrent to the rest.
To Bucky:
(http://img40.imageshack.us/img40/4205/ibo2y5lv0iqmc7bx8ap81jd.jpg)
In other news, my girlfriend broke up with me. The whole situation is complicated so I won't outline it, but it took its toll emotionally... on me.
I'm 97% over it though.
Heehee...that picture...just made my day.
Quote from: I loves YOUz on July 13, 2009, 04:59:15 AM
Okay.. So I'm with this guy. We'll call him J. lol..
so I get confused all the time.. I mean like we've been together for 8 months on the 15th.
We get along. we dont argue much. he's 18 so only 3 years older then me.
My dad and nanny don't mind us seeing eachother.
niether does his parents. His mom and him come get me for my lunch at work everyday.
We like each very much. and don't have much problems..
*but I'm still scared he's gonna hurt me cuz he has hurt other girls- like breaking hearts hurt. and Idk if I can trust him all the time..*
Everyone is afraid of that. My boyfriend is positivly amazing so far, and I'm still afraid of getting hurt.
Quote from: I loves YOUz on July 13, 2009, 04:59:15 AM*like I dont text other guys cuz he doesn't like it and he dont text other girls cuz I dont like it.. but thats like not trusting eachother..*
This is stupid. Honestly. I don't know about anyone else, but I've found that a relationship where you can't have friends of the opposite gender without your significant other's approval to be absolutely too controlling.
If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.
Quote from: I loves YOUz on July 13, 2009, 04:59:15 AM*He is very emotional and is hard to talk to about trust and things like that*
*but he's easy to talk about other stuff with*
*he's very sweet and jus plain amazing*
*but I get the feeling sometimes that he lies to me*
*but he always tells me if I dont believe him to text his mom cuz shes always with him*
*so should I trust him completely or not*
This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
And the thing with his mom....THAT creeps me out. You said he's 18? And he's always with his mommy? So many problems there I can't even count on both hands.
I don't know if you can trust him. I know, with what you've given me, that I don't trust him.He reminds me so much of this guy a friend of mine used to date...and that was a bad relationship.
I can't tell you what to do, but I'm going to ask you to be careful.
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This is stupid. Honestly. I don't know about anyone else, but I've found that a relationship where you can't have friends of the opposite gender without your significant other's approval to be absolutely too controlling.
I honestly don't like that either.
I've been in some relationships where the guy doesn't talk to any other girls besides me. Then, he expects me to do the same thing. It feels like I'm being smothered.
If he wants to do it, it's fine, but don't expect me to do the same thing.
I would only draw the line with the people who relentlessly flirt with said boyfriend/girlfriend.
That wouldn't be right.
If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.
^
I do.. except like a couple guys
This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
^
I kinda like him bein like that cuz to a point it shows he cares.
And the thing with his mom....THAT creeps me out. You said he's 18? And he's always with his mommy?
^
He has nothin better to do.. lol
I don't know if you can trust him. I know, with what you've given me, that I don't trust him.He reminds me so much of this guy a friend of mine used to date...and that was a bad relationship.
I can't tell you what to do, but I'm going to ask you to be careful.
^
I do trust him to a point. and I'm bein really careful. I'm pretty sure he would have already left me if he jus want to yea... so I think he does like me.. I mean everyone tells me that I have changed him.. and I didn't want to or even try to change him.
Quote from: I loves YOUz on July 14, 2009, 09:38:23 AM
If I was in your position, I'd text whomever I wanted and if he had a problem tell him to suck it. It's not like your even considering cheating on him.
^
I do.. except like a couple guys
This entire part simply send of alarms to me. Overly emotional boys tend to be the ones you want to stay away from. It's a warning sign when you can't talk to him about a simple issue such as trust without him getting all worked up.
^
I kinda like him bein like that cuz to a point it shows he cares.
That's stupidity talking. If he cares, he'll show it in other ways. Getting upset isn't the way to show you care. Buying flowers randomly, or simply giving you his coat when you are cold, or suggesting you guys rent a movie and cuddle up to watch it one night...those are ways to show he cares.
Oh, and what I meant by my friend's bad relationship. It wasn't about sex. He ended up being abusive. Don't say he'd never do that. Anyone is capable of it, all it takes is snapping once and getting away with it. The overly emotional thing is simply a symptom of it.
Also, just so we are all clear, people who usually seek advice subconsciously know that something is wrong and want some kind of validation that they are wrong. People in crumbling relationships ask for advice, then defend the relationship. It's this weird thing called psychology.
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on July 14, 2009, 01:24:19 PM
Also, just so we are all clear, people who usually seek advice subconsciously know that something is wrong and want some kind of validation that they are wrong. People in crumbling relationships ask for advice, then defend the relationship. It's this weird thing called psychology.
*smoking a pipe*
Hmm, "psychology" you say?
Interesting.
Yeah. It's this new thing that changes every twenty minutes depending on the newest 'expert'.
Is it normal for guys to act normal around you, but as soon as you don`t see each other for a while they get all... like, talkative?
Honey, I don't know. My boyfriend never shuts up.
Oh, my gosh. I `bout fell over laughing.
Yeah, he talks a lot when I`m near him, but talks a whole lot more when I`m not...
Don't take that negatively! TAKE IT POSITIVELY!
It's a good sign, it means he's a bit like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh, no! Great!
*Shakes head.*
He`s nice enough. Sweet. Shy. Funny. Completely stupid.
That's friggin good signs! DUH!
Waiit. It's the, I don't wanna ruin our friendship kinda thingy.
I know, they sound like good signs.
But it might be the I don`t want to ruin our friendship thing.
Heck, that already made one guy take off.
And this dude is kind of... sensitive. Fannay, if you get my point. Not exactly, but he acts like it sometimes.
Then, if he's that kind of guy, he'll be WAY to shy, to take the first step. WAY! Seriously! WAY!
Of course, he's maybe tempted, but the thought of being rejected and laughed at, or being looked at as an idiot is compelling! :D
Yeah, you`re a guy. You should know.
I`m too shy to take the first step.
I would rather have to sing in front of a hundred strangers than to do that.
Quote from: potter_fan122 on July 16, 2009, 11:16:16 AM
I would rather have to sing in front of a hundred strangers than to do that.
I've done that, and yet i can't even tell the guy I have a crush on, that I have a crush on him. I'm being like Ginny, I said that i didn't have a crush on him. only a few actually know that I do.
Yeah, but you might not be as lucky as me. I got very lucky in that the guy I had a crush on also had a crush on me and eventually we both acted on our feelings. Haha
Well, I`m not sure if I like him like that. He`s one of my best friends, and I can tell him anything.
But he flirts.
It`s too confusing.
Well, it's kind of easy to just let it go, and see how it goes? :D
But it's easy for me to say that, a lazy fart back here in Norway :D
STUPID EMMOTIONS.
Why can`t everything be simple?
-Because then eerythin would be to easy.
Ya think?!
-No. I know.
What?
-I know.
You know what?
-About da lotion.
((Sorry. Sugar rush.))
Seriously, if you don't want to, then you don't want to :D And it's good to give it some time :D
I don`t know if I want do or not, that`s the thing.
Why can`t guys just be simple and sensitive to feelings? Unghhh.
I AM!
Kidding. Returning the question, why can't girl be simple and stuff?
It's an everlasting questions asked by us who are young! :D ;D
Girls are simple. At least the ones that are smart are.
We want someone to tell us that we are pretty, and mean it. We want to be able to talk about stuff. We want to be able to laugh and have fun.
There, that`s not that hard.
Uh, nothing is ever simple. And t just gets harder as you get older.
Though, I can tell you that I simply think I'm falling in love with this boy....
Good for you Ginny. (I`m serious, not sarcastic.)
And I`m guessing that you`re happy, then?
-nods-
Mmmhmm. I am surprised by how happy I am. I got really lucky. His main priority is making me smile. He's funny, and smart, and easy to get along with. And it helps that he's so completely adorable.
Awwwz. I`m jelous. <I don`t know if I spelled that right, and spell check hates me.
I wish I could be happy. I mean... nevermind.
I mean, I thought I was happy when me and the last boy broke it off. And I was! But I'm even happier now.
I wish this kinda happiness on everyone.
It's jealus. or.... I dunno.
Well, Currently, I have nothing happening, but I do wonder what will happen if the chance comes? :D
*Sigh.*
But, I`m too young. Sometimes I just feel like I`m too old for myself.
Quote from: potter_fan122 on July 16, 2009, 12:27:11 PM
*Sigh.*
But, I`m too young. Sometimes I just feel like I`m too old for myself.
Same with me I always fell like forty and I'm glad there's someone else out there like me (Not exactly LOL)!!!!
(Jealous)
Okay, so I really like S, but neither of us have ever been in a relationship before. (Well he has, but they never actually went on a date)
I feel like when we're together, it's SUPER awkward because we don't know what we're doing.
I feel bad for saying this, but I also don't really want to be tied down going into High School.
Not like I'm super hot and everyone is going to be asking me out or anything, but still.
I don't want to break up with him because he keeps saying all of these really nice things to me. (And I quote, "You're like... the first girl I've liked this much." "Girl, you're second to none.")
On top of all of this, we talk online more than we do in person, so it's easier to say things without being embarrassed.
Because of that, I don't really know him as a person, just as who he is online.
What do I do??
Man that tuff for ol' Bucky to solve (LOL) Well If you really like S then go for S unless the other person Has said "I love you" then you can do it!!!! (You could otherwise anyway but that might make it easier)
Open relationship maybe?
I personally don't like having an open relationship, but if it makes things easier for you and S...
Also, maybe if you two hang out more, y'all will feel more comfortable around each other. It may get rid of the awkwardness.
Being able to talk better, means that your both nervous. Go out alone, with no friends some time! ;D
Seriously, I mean it. I think it'll help !
I want to. But I need permission and I ain't gettin' any trust me....
Quote from: fudge0604 on July 18, 2009, 07:31:16 AM
Being able to talk better, means that your both nervous. Go out alone, with no friends some time! ;D
Seriously, I mean it. I think it'll help !
The problem is, my mom won't let me be alone with a guy yet... but he's in Denver now, so I kind of get a break
Well, you could lie to your mom, or just meet in secret :O
:o So evil! Yeah, that probably wouldn't work especially because I can't drive... And I don't have a cell phone...
OK I'm sick of it
This newage invention is controling the word. I can't stay up late I'm only twelve etc. etc. I'm just as mature as a 40 year old so why do I have to follow these stupid rules.
This cuts into relashonships as well. It all depends on ages. You can't date a baby (Though that would be sick). You can't date a fifty or sixty year old etc. etc.
Bucky, I doubt that your as mature as a forty year old. No offence.
What's so bad with staying up late? Haha, I do it nearly every day! :D
Quote from: Bucky Black on July 19, 2009, 11:11:47 AM
OK I'm sick of it
This newage invention is controling the word. I can't stay up late I'm only twelve etc. etc. I'm just as mature as a 40 year old so why do I have to follow these stupid rules.
This cuts into relashonships as well. It all depends on ages. You can't date a baby (Though that would be sick). You can't date a fifty or sixty year old etc. etc.
You're definitely not as mature as a 40 year old. You fall under the group of kids who think they know everything when age and behavior would show otherwise. No offense. Wait a year or two and observe yourself at your current age and you'll be amazed (if that's the right word) at the change in yourself.
Since when was this a therapy thread for kids who think they`re not kids? I`m young and I know it. Embrace your youth while you have it.
He hasn`t returned any of my texts or e-mails.
He has never done that before.
I know that I didn`t say anything. The last thing I asked to him was if he had seen the new movie. He replied no and I haven`t heard from him since.
I`m worried.
He`s my best friend, and he talks. A lot.
If he isn`t talking to me, something`s wrong.
Since when did this thread become a " I'm worried about my best friend thread ? " :D
Because he`s my best friend that I was talking about before.
You know,
That one.
Yeah, but you guys are still not together, but never mind. :D
If something bothers him, don't try to force it out of him. It may be embarrassing, or annoying for him, and maybe, the best way is for him to get himself through it alone.
If not, help him out. Show him that your there for him.
Quote from: fudge0604 on July 19, 2009, 07:41:40 PM
Bucky, I doubt that your as mature as a forty year old. No offence.
What's so bad with staying up late? Haha, I do it nearly every day! :D
Thanks a lot LOL
I want to but i'm not aloud to is what I meant!!
Teehee
But Bucky, I'm two years older than you-
Anyways, no more off topic posts. k`?
Quote from: fudge0604 on July 22, 2009, 07:42:55 PM
But Bucky, I'm two years older than you-
Anyways, no more off topic posts. k`?
Actually at HPFF, we're celebrated for our off topic posts.
Quote from: fudge0604 on July 22, 2009, 07:42:55 PM
But Bucky, I'm two years older than you-
Anyways, no more off topic posts. k`?
I'm twelfth your thirteen. Learn to count.
Anyway I like this girl and she is on this site!!!!!!!!!
The difference between twelve and thirteen is a big one.
One year is very short. And I have just finished saying age Dosen't matter to me. Or can't you read. I can teach YOu.
One year is not very short, and stop acting cool.
You are twelve. For you, one year is a lot, in comparison to how long you've lived.
If you're fifty, than one year is much less, since you've lived much longer, and 1:12, and 1:50 is a big part.
You may gain as much experience, but if you're fifty, it's little compared to what you already have, and it's much more compared to how little you have.
And I think you're twelve, not twelfth, as you say. Learn to spell.
I've gotta say i agree with Albus. You grow up alot between twelve and thirteen.
HECK YA! Same with Thirteen and Fourteen!
And I'd say the rest of the teenage years. Then it kinda evens out as you get older..
I find Years Very Short. I Mean I didn't use to but now they seem to just fly by.
Isabelle still has the crush on the guy, and she denies it!
Who??
The seconds pass slowly, but the years go flying by.
Love.. or friends.. love .. or friends my continuos thought sometimes. Girls Can just understand men a bit better (it's easier then understanding you when you say "i'm FInE" your UPset WTH LOL)
Hey you girls.
I'm not *friends* with this one girl, but she knows who I am and we've talked a few times (it has been months since I last talked to her but she used to see me all the time in class.) Would it be socially acceptable to just call her up out of nowhere and ask for a date?
Yeah... But explain why though to her... DON'T LISTEN TO ME, I'M TECHNICALLY NOT A GIRL, I'M A TOMBOY!
It would probably be okay, but you might want to talk to her a little bit first. Then again, it might be a very nice surprise... It's kind of up to you... I could go either way.
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on August 20, 2009, 10:58:23 AM
Hey you girls.
I'm not *friends* with this one girl, but she knows who I am and we've talked a few times (it has been months since I last talked to her but she used to see me all the time in class.) Would it be socially acceptable to just call her up out of nowhere and ask for a date?
I'd call her, but it may be easier for both of you if y'all talk a little more before asking her on a date.
You know, get to know each other better.
Quote from: Miss Xantier on August 20, 2009, 11:03:42 AM
Yeah... But explain why though to her... DON'T LISTEN TO ME, I'M TECHNICALLY NOT A GIRL, I'M A TOMBOY!
That would still make you a girl unless you were a hermaphrodite which your not!!
Okay, I have a problem.
There are tree of them.
And two of them look the same.
Blonde hair, amazing blue eyes.
One`s a jerk.
One`s amazingly sweet.
One`s my best friend.
Hm... I probably won't be much help since I don't KNOW any of them, but
-I'd go with the amazingly sweet one because if one's a jerk, even if he's smokin hot, then he is NOT worth your precious time.
-and stuff with best friend can get messy... like if you do end up going out, and then break up, it might screw with the whole friendship thing...
That's just my opinion though. And remember, I'm only going by your descriptions here.
I agree with Jackie.
If you mess it up with the friend, then you've lost a friend and your boyfriend. A boyfriend is for a while (normally), but a friend is forever (normally).
I would also not go with the jerk, because that would just not be fun... even if he is super hot. He would just get annoying really fast, not a long relationship.
As for the amazingly sweet one, just go for it.
So I pretty much repeated what Jackie said, but still... you get the point :)
Quote from: potter_fan122 on August 21, 2009, 06:19:21 AM
Okay, I have a problem.
There are tree of them.
And two of them look the same.
Blonde hair, amazing blue eyes.
One`s a jerk.
One`s amazingly sweet.
One`s my best friend.
Honestly, it's up to you.
However, with my own experience looks can be deceiving. I've been in the situation you're in now and I picked the gorgeous looking jerk. Well, he ended up cheating on me with my best friend.
So, pick the one you can imagine yourself being with and you know will treat you right.
One is ProbABly A WANKER LOL don't pick them!!
Excuse me?
Well, I knew that the amazing jerk wouldn`t work.
But my best friend..... I don`t know what to do about him. I`m way to shy to tell him, and he`s shy too.
And my other best friend told him that I liked him "as a joke." She said.
So now he doesn`t know what to think.
Neither do I.
okayyy i know this hasnt been posted on in a while but I GOTTA VENT
okay my best friend isnt alowed to think guys are cute..and she's totally an majorly obsessed w/ guys..even totally random guys she doesntknow...
she's not alowed to date either..she just turned 12 and she's holding hands...disappearing into school tunnels....day dreaming..hugging..and soon to be kissing (im sure) with a fifteen year old...and she's turned into a major jerk...and the guy (kody) pretty much i wouldnt be surprised if he's on drugs...=( we know he chews....and i dont know if i should tell her mom?? (my mom knows all this and she doesnt know anymore (i tell my mom everything) so im confused) and i have allot of guy trubles of my own....
FUDGE love troubles I think I'd rather fall in bloody choclate!!
There's this Chick that won't stop following me I even shouted at her "STOP BLOODY FOLLOWING ME" but she won't go away help!!
Just be calm, and talk n o r m a l l y to her. :)
Thanks I'm just a little Creeped out by her, She hides behind trees and stuff.
haha :)
It's not really a case to be bothered by, I would take it as flattering x D :p
Yeah I guess the Chicks all want me !!
Okay, there is a guy in my class, who keeps annoying me to no end! What do I do??? I've tried asking him to stop, and ignoring him! Help me!!!!
Just say too him "Please leave me alone" If he continues tell him that you are not intrested in him so he can keep trying but you will never ever date him!!
Quote from: Miss Xantier on October 7, 2009, 09:36:13 AM
Okay, there is a guy in my class, who keeps annoying me to no end! What do I do??? I've tried asking him to stop, and ignoring him! Help me!!!!
Threaten him and his family. Describe in detail how you will hurt his family and his pets if he continues to persist. Be sure to tell him that you will get his pets first just to show you are serious.
If this doesn't work, you aren't being serious enough.
Quote from: HamandCheese on October 7, 2009, 08:59:12 AM
Yeah I guess the Chicks all want me !!
They all want me too XD
Haha, the threats should work. I like all the various suggestions, but I have problem of my own. There's this guy who I like and I don't know if he likes me back! He's known around school to be kind of a player, but he told me once that that wasn't true; that it was all rumors. I don't know whether to believe him or not, and I can't tell whether he likes me or not!
He just looks at me in a way, where his whole face breaks out in a smile whenever he's talking to me, and I can't help but smile too. Help me please! I need suggestions or 'rules' on how to tell if a guy likes you, and what I should do about his whole "being a player" history.
Well, sorry. There really is no way to tell. If he`s been know as a player, you can`t really trust him until he proves himself different. I would say, though, that if he smiles like you say he does whenever he sees you, there`s a good chance that he likes you. Just hang out with him a little more, and see how it goes.
My boyfriend had a rumor about him. Similar to the player thing. I disregarded it just cause he was so sweet to me on our first few dates. He's proved it time and again that he isn't in this for a fling, that he wants a ral relationship with me.
But then, we are a little older than you guys.
Think of it this way. You have fun with him, right? He's nice to you, right? You're in what, middle school? Early highschool? You aren't looking for a soul mate now. Just look for someone to have some fun with, and someone who isn't gonna treat you like crap.
Easier said than done, I know.
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on October 12, 2009, 11:03:51 PM
My boyfriend had a rumor about him. Similar to the player thing. I disregarded it just cause he was so sweet to me on our first few dates. He's proved it time and again that he isn't in this for a fling, that he wants a ral relationship with me.
But then, we are a little older than you guys.
Think of it this way. You have fun with him, right? He's nice to you, right? You're in what, middle school? Early highschool? You aren't looking for a soul mate now. Just look for someone to have some fun with, and someone who isn't gonna treat you like crap.
Easier said than done, I know.
Well he is probably an Expert At making girls think it is thereal one with them.Ever back off or ask him about it is my opinion!!
I have the choice between sex with a real hottie and a meaningful relationship with no sex.
I could technically choose both though, except that I would officially be cheating on the girl and she wouldn't find out either.
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on October 13, 2009, 09:05:34 AM
I have the choice between sex with a real hottie and a meaningful relationship with no sex.
I could technically choose both though, except that I would officially be cheating on the girl and she wouldn't find out either.
Well we are meant to reProduce. But I assume You will be being safe. It really is well your choice!!
Quote from: HamandCheese on October 13, 2009, 03:39:40 PM
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on October 13, 2009, 09:05:34 AM
I have the choice between sex with a real hottie and a meaningful relationship with no sex.
I could technically choose both though, except that I would officially be cheating on the girl and she wouldn't find out either.
Well we are meant to reProduce. But I assume You will be being safe. It really is well your choice!!
Reproducing is our instinct, not my desire. I could choose both and totally be able to live with it and nobody would get hurt. But I bet that was the mindset of many people who decided to cheat on their partner.
Well Are they both gonna put out??? LOL
There issomeoe I know but have never meet ,On the internet so i don't know if she's a 45 year oldWAnker but I Keep having Dreams about hER!! HELP!!
So there is this guy I like. A lot!
And my idiot friends told him that I did, and then he kind of blew them off and didn't bring it up.
And now I've gotten to know him more and he is like a really good friend. But I still like him.
What should i do?
Quote from: Bucky Black on October 17, 2009, 06:48:16 AM
There issomeoe I know but have never meet ,On the internet so i don't know if she's a 45 year oldWAnker but I Keep having Dreams about hER!! HELP!!
Why don't you just listen to her when she tells you she's not! Plus just tell her, she'll listen.
She's AUssie
I have meet Ham but we are not close. I did tell him about this girl though. I Didn't tell him about here either!!
I like this one guy and he knows...he's one of my best friends and he has been for atleast 3 years...and we talked everyday and every time I would see him around my other friends (that are his too)the place that i ski at (we are both ski racers and thats how i met him) they teased us about liking eachother...i never told any of them...and he never said that he liked me (that i know of) he didnt really believe them that i liked him...but then i got this one girl to tell him like 4 months ago...and it was awkward for a while...but then he told me that he liked me..that made me happy...but i didnt go crazy while talking to him (we were IMing) and now...he's going around telling me that he loves gf...that she's amazing, that she's pretty, and that she's awesome...i meen i get it he LOVES his Gf but he doesnt have to rub in my face.....and my EX-best friend is a total idiot...she's not allowed to think guys are cute...and she's practicly going out with this one kid who i hear alot of bad stuff about and we told her that we werent happy about her holding hands with him and hanging out with him so much, so she told us that she would not hold hands with him and tell him that they need to just be friends..she said that 2 months ago...and it happened again..then she said it this month guess what? it happened AGAIN...and then he kiss her forhead/cheeks 4 times then the other day she told me that he kissed her on the lips twice...she just turned 12 and he's 15..ughhh
If she want's to tap a 15 year old that's her bussines not yours!!
Give her a break, Ham. She's trying to be a good friend and make sure her friend doesn't get into any trouble. However, on the other hand, you can't really help someone who won't help themselves.
Can someone reply to mine? Please?
Quote from: purpleraincloud on October 18, 2009, 03:36:07 AM
So there is this guy I like. A lot!
And my idiot friends told him that I did, and then he kind of blew them off and didn't bring it up.
And now I've gotten to know him more and he is like a really good friend. But I still like him.
What should i do?
What CAN you do, really? The most you can do is see if he likes you. If not, oh well. The worst that happens is he doesn't like you.
Quote from: HamandCheese on October 29, 2009, 12:43:06 PM
If she want's to tap a 15 year old that's her bussines not yours!!
it is pretty much my buisness because for my whole life we have been pretty much sisters...our worlds revovled around eachother...this is the first real fight we've gotten into...and she's being a jerk to everyone except for her "boyfriend" and seriously i dont trust the 15 year old...the only person in my town (except parents) who has a good word to say about him is my friend...He's on drugs...he most likely drinks...alot...he smokes...he does so much stuff he shouldnt im not even saying...and he's like the 2nd worst in our town...(worst of the ones who arent adults)
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on October 30, 2009, 10:37:47 PM
Quote from: purpleraincloud on October 18, 2009, 03:36:07 AM
So there is this guy I like. A lot!
And my idiot friends told him that I did, and then he kind of blew them off and didn't bring it up.
And now I've gotten to know him more and he is like a really good friend. But I still like him.
What should i do?
What CAN you do, really? The most you can do is see if he likes you. If not, oh well. The worst that happens is he doesn't like you.
Ask him out easy as!!
What every nice guy wants is a shy kinda geeky cute girl who will never cheat on him.
Discovered this recently.
Lol, thats how my ex was. I used to be very shy and afraid of people and dressed in clothes way too big. He hated it when I started taking pride in the way I looked. Part of the reason for our fights which lead to us breaking up.
Quote from: Ginny Weasly on November 16, 2009, 06:23:06 AM
Lol, thats how my ex was. I used to be very shy and afraid of people and dressed in clothes way too big. He hated it when I started taking pride in the way I looked. Part of the reason for our fights which lead to us breaking up.
Lol That Is Weird!!
:-[ the guy I like and I accidently kissed...it was seriously by accident. It was dark because we were babysitting my two little brothers with the help of my older brother... and they love to wrestle with us in the dark. So we were wrestling and the guy (kasey) kept on tackling me, and one time he tackled me down into a crack..and our heads got rammed into eachother...and i guess we kissed... and he tickled me until i landed on his lap.. and then i got like hugged... and now he is asking me who i like... (he used to know that i liked him) and i told him some random cute guy i know...and then he asked second person and i said a different guy i know.... and really i like ONLY him.... ive only liked him for like...3-4 years since i met him... and he is just being kinda weird to me... and he is calling me Kisser... and he wont shut up to me... we having nothing left to talk about because we have covered every subject like a million times...and he still talks to me... and he's telling me that any guy who hurts me/ breaks my heart is gonna get punched a couple of times. and that he is my body guard. And he doesnt want any guy (except gabe... my other body guard) get like within 3 yards of me with out threatening them... So im like really confused here ??? because he has a gf... but everyone thinks he likes me...
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on November 15, 2009, 10:16:46 AM
What every nice guy wants is a shy kinda geeky cute girl who will never cheat on him.
Discovered this recently.
I hate the shy!!
Quote from: Bucky Black on December 13, 2009, 12:47:54 PM
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on November 15, 2009, 10:16:46 AM
What every nice guy wants is a shy kinda geeky cute girl who will never cheat on him.
Discovered this recently.
I hate the shy!!
*smacks Bucky in head*
Jeez, some guy seems like he likes me. Like for a second I thought he did, then another second he doesn't! Make up your mind dude! Gosh, I kinda stuck in the love life. *sighs* Never gonna find that one person.
Quote from: Miss Xantier on December 13, 2009, 10:46:26 PM
Quote from: Bucky Black on December 13, 2009, 12:47:54 PM
Quote from: goblet_fulla_fire on November 15, 2009, 10:16:46 AM
What every nice guy wants is a shy kinda geeky cute girl who will never cheat on him.
Discovered this recently.
I hate the shy!!
*smacks Bucky in head*
Jeez, some guy seems like he likes me. Like for a second I thought he did, then another second he doesn't! Make up your mind dude! Gosh, I kinda stuck in the love life. *sighs* Never gonna find that one person.
I just meant that I prefer the loud mouths. Then I know there like me. LOL
Now I get your track of mind.
Gawd.
You know when you know your best friend likes you, and you kinda like them, but you don`t want to do anything because it`d be weird, then they start asking you questions and being really sweet and stuff? But then he starts talking to you differently, and you know that he wants to be with you, to get to have special time together, and you do too, but you can`t? You already tried that once before with someone else, and it went horrible, and now you`re worried that it`ll happen again, and you`re being too careful? Then you get so confused because it all just gets jumbled up?
I mean, like, I`m talking to him now, and it`s just sooo obvious. I kinda noticed it last year, but now my other friends are verifying it for me. I just don`t know what to do. I really like hin, but I`m scared that it`s not going to work.
*starts banging head against wall*
Stacey, here's some advice. Tell him! If you like him as well, and he likes you back. Why not try it? But if you notice it starting to go bad, tell them that. But before then, tell them after you tell them that you like them back, but make sure that you guys can still be friends. Best way to do.
Easier said than done. My ex and I always promised to be friends, but guess what? We don't talk anymore. In fact, I had to call the cops on him because he wouldn't leave me alone and keep making threats about my new boyfriend.
I dunno what o tell ya Stacey. Personally, I'd just stay friends for a while. Let him know you kinda like him but not enough to risk your friendship.
What Ginny said, was better advice!
Leaving the ones u love?? Not my trouble I'm asking for a friend of mine.
Does anyone think that I'm crazy for saying no to the guy that I've liked for 3 or 4 years because I think that #1 Dating behind my parents backs is stupid and #2 that I think that dating under the age of 16 is immature???
I don't think you're crazy, I totally agree with you on not dating until 16 due to me not being able to get a date, yet everyone else at 12 can!
I'm Diffrent, But I think that's little Premature lol
I think it's not stupid. However, I don't think you should place an age on it.
After 12 it's fine to me.
I think 12 is too young to be seriously dating. You are y no means mature enough for a serious relationship by that time. You may think you are, ut you aren't. Genetically, your brain just simply isn't developed enough for you to have mature thoughts.
Dating is so you can find someone who you want to marry..you (hopefully :) ) wont be getting married at 12..or 13, or 14...or 15
WOAH. Dating is NOT to find someone to marry.
No, no, no. Some people NEVER want to be married, they just want to be with someone who's company they enjoy.
Quote from: Ginnyweasley13 on January 26, 2010, 10:15:43 PM
Dating is so you can find someone who you want to marry..you (hopefully :) ) wont be getting married at 12..or 13, or 14...or 15
.....that is so right why get too attached if u dont plan on stayin together
Noooo, not true. I have dated a few guys and I wasn't looking at them as someone I wanted to marry someday, but rather someone I wanted to spend the near future with, i.e. the weekend, or for the next month.
Exactly.
Most people you date at this age you won't marry anway. You could be just looking for someone to be with right now and to have someone you can enjoy your time with and feel loved.
And I wouldn't really call it immature to date before your 16. Yeah, that may be your opinion but mine is just that you like someone, you want to date them, ect.
Nothing immature about it.
its not immature. I got with my first serious boyfriend when I was 15. I'm 16 and he's 19 and we've made it 14 months and 2 weeks.
Quote from: Alexis on January 28, 2010, 08:30:38 AM
Exactly.
Most people you date at this age you won't marry anway.
I am a strong believer in High school love personally though....
Me to..
Okay, I got a problem. Not sure if this is love or just friendship. But my one friend (The same in say whats on your mind. that I thought we weren't friends.) today I thought we weren't friends, I started crying. Just thinking about it now, makes me close to crying. I don't know, why... Like everyone asks us if we're dating but we aren't just friends. They won't take that answer. But I just can't imagine life without him. It's more then my other best friends. I've imagined life without all of them, and when I think about it without him. I just can't, and I start crying. What is this gonna be? Are we just gonna be best friends, or something more? Please help me.
I don`t know a girl that hasn`t gone through this. You just gotta go through it. It happened with me and one guy friend, and we went out. Now I hate him. Well, I don`t hate him so much anymore, but I strongly dislike him. He changed, and we can`t go back. Now it`s happening with another guy friend, one I really really really like a ton. He`s really sweet, funny, smart, all that good stuff. We were talking via IM one night and asking each other questions. We started with the easy ones and got to the harder ones. He`s the only person I`ve told about my depression, and I trust him a lot.
I know that he likes me. Like that, or, that`s what he thinks. He`s admitted it to others and they have told me. But one of those hard questions was, well, hard. And he asnwered it wrong. Once you get deep down like that you just sort of know.
What I`m saying is, you just have to go with what you think feels right. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn`t, hopefully you`ll have a lifelong friend. But think about if you really like like him. You may just be attracted to him because you`re such good friends. I wish you luck, I really do, but it`s not the end of the world. You`ll find other friends. Trust me, I would know.
I've had a hard time. Besides, we've been through everything together. A had told me a bunch of things. But like in 8th Grade when he moved, I missed him everyday. Then surprised me by coming back. He started to be all mean, and I was alone. And guess what! The one thing most people out grew, I grew back into, I started having Imaginary friends. I would walk around school talking to myself or at least from my point of view a friend. In Grade 7, me and A were tied to the hip. We've always wanted some class to be together. Seriously, I don't think anything can break us. But if we tried to go out, it would just be strange. Very strange. But I find myself checking everyday on facebook whether he's single or not. Why though?
Maybe you`re a little desperate for him?
Sounds to me like it`s over-- maybe never even started. You`ve just got to let him go and get past it. There will be somebody else eventually. Just don`t go after every guy that`s nice to you. Really, it scares them off. Maybe something changed with A.
Yeah, the type of friends he hangs out with. Plus it's high school. I'm not desperate for him. Then why do I deny us dating.
I love My Booo!!!!
So, i guess that 3 weeks ago (i found out on saterday) that the guy i like was going to ask me out, but then there were some rumors going around that i said that i hated him and that he's a whole bunch of stuff that i would never say, to him or to anyone. And so he was unsure whether or not to ask me. but then he got his friend to ask me out for him, but the friend wouldnt do it because he always jokes around saying that the guy i like is asking me out.. but we all know that then its a joke.. and so i smack his arm, so he thought that i would just get mad at him (the friend of the guy i like) so he never did.. then last saterday he told me about how Kasey (the guy i like) was going to ask me out... and now im kinda sad because he has a girlfriend..and this year was the 3rd year in a row that i spent the whole day with him on valentines day...
Okay new problem! This problem just started like yesterday. In computer class, this guy in my class, well out of the blue he kept saying Hi, over and over and staring at me! He did it again today, but in more classes. Em told me to ignore him, and that reason why is probably because he likes me. But I'm totally confused. Because before he did it occasionally and only saying it once unless I don't say Hi back, now he does it all of the time, and he won't stop even when I say Hi back. Until his friend, (who I had earlier in the year thought I was dating but not. lol, I felt like I was on a cloud until I heard that it might be a prank by A.) had sit next to him, but whenever he left he would start again. Okay, this would starting getting confusing. okay guy who might have crush on me will stay as he, and other guy will be B. So like I was saying before. I don't know what to do. I really need to know if this is true or not, because I don't think I can take another "Oh he likes you, will you go out with him?" Then "What? I was never dating her." Then be deflated and be grumpy afterwards and break down in my room. And be totally confused. I'm tough, I can take a rejection.... Can I? lol. Help me! Do you think this is a crush or he just wants to annoy me?
Sometimes, it's just as simple as he was bored and decided to annoy the closest person...
GUYS ARE OVER-RATED! and stupid. and dumb. But we gotta love them anyway no matter how much nuts they put us thru.
Quote from: I loves YOUz on February 26, 2010, 10:14:19 AM
GUYS ARE OVER-RATED! and stupid. and dumb. But we gotta love them anyway no matter how much nuts they put us thru.
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FOREVER!!!
God I h8 when the whole school gets involved when you like someone!!!!
Quote from: Miss Xantier on February 19, 2010, 12:15:38 PM
Okay new problem! This problem just started like yesterday. In computer class, this guy in my class, well out of the blue he kept saying Hi, over and over and staring at me! He did it again today, but in more classes. Em told me to ignore him, and that reason why is probably because he likes me. But I'm totally confused. Because before he did it occasionally and only saying it once unless I don't say Hi back, now he does it all of the time, and he won't stop even when I say Hi back. Until his friend, (who I had earlier in the year thought I was dating but not. lol, I felt like I was on a cloud until I heard that it might be a prank by A.) had sit next to him, but whenever he left he would start again. Okay, this would starting getting confusing. okay guy who might have crush on me will stay as he, and other guy will be B. So like I was saying before. I don't know what to do. I really need to know if this is true or not, because I don't think I can take another "Oh he likes you, will you go out with him?" Then "What? I was never dating her." Then be deflated and be grumpy afterwards and break down in my room. And be totally confused. I'm tough, I can take a rejection.... Can I? lol. Help me! Do you think this is a crush or he just wants to annoy me?
Going through something similar PM me!!
Well, now I'm going through something different! Gosh, apparently. The boys just figured out that they can get to me. But I can't just ignore them! It's my job, to keep them in line. And I have a crush on the guy, that I'm supposed to hate. I had started to hate him, and now I think I'm in love with him. Heck! My name goes well with his last name! What in the hell am I supposed to do? Every time I try to talk to him, we just end up arguing! I'm not sure if he knows I like him. Hahaha, that would be funny if that happened. Whoops! Yeah, what am I supposed to do? Send one of my friends to him and tell him that I like him?!
It is diffrent but ask him out!!!!
How is the question Ham. Because whenever we remotely even talk to each other, we get into an arguement. But I'm just thinking I should just get a friend of mine, to ask him out for me.
Wat till lunch go up to him and say "Hey (Insert name here) do you want to go out with me"
I already know that answer, if I go like that! Heck, you should of heard what he said, when he overheard a classmate asking me if I like him. He said "NO!" Before I could answer, and I just answered in a meek voice "Maybe." Sooo, I'm either gonna have a friend of mine ask him for me or just wait, and use the old crush method I used in 4th grade.
Good Idea, if he likes you he'll take action, unless he is a dooce.
he's an obnoxious, stupid, git.
wow.. I havent been on here in forever.. havent had time... I also havent had time to do school for the past 2 or 3 weeks..oh joy.. I get to do school in the summer! :D (that was sarcastic in case you didnt know) Annnyways... The guy i like has started ignoring me again.. he started talking to me but then he started ignoring me AGAIN... but my best guy friend was talking to him and he asked him if he likes me and the guy i like says Sometimes... I dont like the SOMETIMES part... and i really want him to like me.. and he's one of the 2 people who i can be myself when im around.. i cant be myself around my best girl friends.. just him and my other best guy friend.. anyone got any ideas about what to do about the "sometimes" ???
LOL going through Isabelles problem yet again..
Hey, at least you haven't gone through the problem I faced for alot of years. When A and me, hang out together at lunch, people just come up to us asking if we are dating! Seriously! It's starting to get annoying.
umm yeah.. I have, and now I like someone who I'm suppose to hate.
Haha! Nice! It's like our relationships are the same. I'm in love with the enemy.
I know aye!! The funny thing is she is a lot like me!!
Haha! Nice, well the guy I like. Is a total opposite. I don't even think, he's noticed that I like him. Heck, Ang teased me about it. And imitated me staring at him as he passed by us with Lab Coats for our LA Projects.
lol
How do I let a guy know nicely that I'm not interested?
I would think, just say to him something like "You're really sweet, but you don't really appeal to me as someone I should be interested in."
That doesn't always work. Best case, just tell him no and move on as quickly as possible. Don't try to be too nice about it...it's how misunderstanding occur.
I agree with Ginny on tis one..
Thanks guys!
No worries!!!!