advise about a boy.....(Please join)

[natalie]

 hey, its me Natalie. i need some advise about a guy, well...actually my boyfriend. Hes a grade younger than me. He can be sweet and nice and then he can be a jerk and a big flirt wit other girls. I get mad everytime he flirts with some of my friends...and i kno some of them like him so it makes me hate him sometimes. He never really talks to me...but says he likes me. i thought it was because he was shy around me but...i dont know. I liked him way better before we started dateing!  i wish i could break up wit him but i dont have the nerve to. and also because....im afraid....that one of my friends will date him rite after we break up because...well i broke up wit him...but i do like him... for some odd reason. And i have once had one of my bestest friends date a guy like rite after i broke up wit my ex boyriend. i was sad because i thought she used me...u kno to just go out wit him. im scared and need some advise...and help...PLEASE!!

[Ryan]

Yeah well even though I am a boy you should dump him and find someone else because you are a really nice person even though I Don't know you and well screw him.

[LavyBrown]

ummm...this isn't really the place for this subject, but I guess I'll give you some advice.


DUMP HIS BEHIND LIKE HE WAS LAST WEEKS GARBAGE.

you may like him a lot but a guy who flirts with your girls and hardly ever talks to you just isn't worth you time or love. if your scared get him alone and then just tell before you can stop yourself. then walk away. it sounds mean but it would be worse to wait and wait and wait, hoping it will get better. IT'S NOT GOING TO GET BETTER!!!!! Do it now or wait until he decides he likes one of your friends more then he likes you.

[fudge0604]

( and then to continue a bit of Lavys post!)

Crushing your feelings by leaving you.

But next time. Don't post it here. Post it in general. It is there it fits.

[Ginny Weasly]

Don't put up with his bullsh!t. Really, no girl deserves that. You like him because you think you should like him, but you don't love him. And he doesn't love you.

Trust me. If a guy is obviously ignoring your feelings, there's no way he can love you. You guys would be better off as friends.

So what if your friend dates him? Let her find out what a jerk he is. Because he is a jerk. And she isn't using you to get to him. She just sees a new oppurtunity. Let her deal with his sh!t.

[LordBlaZe]

well said ginny well said
and yea, like everyone else said
obviously things arent working with you guys so just move on

[Molly]

okay don't you all hate me when i say this by see i kno natalie in person, wer elike sisters, anyway i'm one of the friends that likes him. And i just want you to no nat that if you dump him (which did happen) i won't date him till you are over it, and also i want you to know that you and I will never loose our freindship cause of a bou, even though I sitll have a crush on him (i have since 4th grade and now i am in seventh, ((hes in my class)) i sitll like him) I would never do anything to hurt you.

so tell me am i wrong for having a crush on my bffs boyfriend, (which now is her ex,) and is there a chance he'll be a jerk to me too????

[Ginny Weasly]

Big chance, girlie. Guys who are jerks stay jerks until something drastic happens in their lives that makes them change.

[ally]

i agree wit ginny, he may sound like hes sweet and nice because he flirts wit u even if no one even notices u but trust me Molly , hes not worth it. u need to not just look at that boy, and should see the other options out dere because trust me there is way better guys out there that wont flirt wit ur friends and will only notice u.... because ive learned it from experience.